Probably, every girl at least once askedthe question of how to congratulate the former on his birthday, and whether or not it should be done at all. If you woke up in the morning with the thought "I want to congratulate the former on his birthday," this should be done so that it was beautiful and memorable for a long time.
In most cases, not so much the formerbeloved, how much the environment dictates certain rules. It begins to seem that this is not the favorite at all (albeit a former one), but some kind of personal enemy. It is worth congratulating the former on his birthday or not - the decision is yours. But in any case, this is not a direct proof that you are not able to do without it or can not forget it. Rather, it is a sign of spiritual maturity, the ability to forgive and inner nobility.
Before congratulating the former on his birthday, you need to understand the reason why such a desire arose. Based on this, you can already choose the right option.
If you just want to congratulate the former secondhalf of respect, greetings in social networks with a postcard will suit. Did you manage to remain friends? Then do not necessarily emphasize the status of "ex" - you can send a message or call. This is provided that he does not have a sweetheart, and you will not spoil your call not only with a holiday, but with other people's relationships.
Even if you and your spouse did not part good, congratulating your ex-husband on your birthday is required by certain factors:
There are a number of cases when it is better to refuse a rush to congratulate a former one on his birthday, in order not to aggravate the situation:
If there is absolutely no desire to congratulate the pastlove in verse, or this option you think is not too appropriate, you can beautifully congratulate the former with a birthday just words. The main thing here is for words to be written and uttered from the heart. For example, this:
In those cases when you absolutely do not know what to say, and congratulations with prose seem stupid, the already finished creations in verse will come to the aid:
Pompous words I will not scream,
And the desire is magical too,
I wish you health and happiness,
There is nothing more expensive in the world!
Here is another good option:
Although we have parted for a long time
And the flame of feelings was long gone,
In memory are our dates,
Native, lovely for us.
Congratulate you on your birthday
With all my heart, I want,
Love you the same, eternal,
You fulfill your dream.
You can choose another verse:
Happy birthday, once a favorite,
I remember your birthday,
I hope today is a happy,
Without a doubt, I am pleased with myself.
We were friends with you,
And I hope, I can congratulate,
The message is simply sending,
A kiss instead of a point to send.
I you, you know, still jealous,
But in my heart I wish good,
May the heavenly angel help
And with you will always be there.
If you broke up with your lover just recently, then a birthday is a good occasion to build a relationship. The main thing is to do it unobtrusively.
What did your beloved dream about when you were together?Maybe it's a gift certificate for go-kart, a T-shirt with the symbols of your favorite group or hockey team, a subscription to a gym or a set of tools? Think about it. Look at the gift you like, call and congratulate your beloved. If you can arrange a meeting on the birthday itself or in the days after it - get a gift. Maybe your former one will no longer be the past, and become a terrific present.