A lot of effort requires preparation for the wedding.After all, you need to think through a large number of different trifles. It should be properly organized the celebration, so that the young and the guests themselves, of course, are satisfied.
However, after the holiday itself, an unforgettablethe event of husband and wife - the wedding night. Think it too, in advance, so she remembered the young. It is on the wedding night that the newlyweds are finally alone. Now they can relax and enjoy each other. Now we will talk about how to prepare for the wedding night, how to make it unforgettable.
Many of those who marry to the end do not know the answer to this question. They also do not understand how it should pass and what to symbolize.
Undoubtedly, that for the newlyweds the first marriagenight is a really romantic time. It also symbolizes the foundation of a new family. During the wedding night, the young people finally find themselves together, they can devote time to each other. In the morning, a new, so to speak, "adult" life will begin. And the first wedding night becomes the starting point of family relations.
Young people do not always know what to do at this time,how to lead. However, we note that the first wedding night is no different from the next, which you will spend with your spouse after the wedding. The only difference is that in the first young people try to please each other with surprises, so that it becomes unforgettable.
In many respects it depends on the future spouse,how will the first wedding night after the wedding. After all, on his shoulders are the questions of organization. The most important thing in this case is to find a suitable romantic place. If there is no apartment, then the first wedding night can be spent in a house on the lake or in a hotel. However, unfortunately, not everyone can afford such a thing. Many newlyweds do not understand how you can spend this unforgettable night at home. Then parents leave the apartment for children for this time.
Regardless of which place is chosen, itsmust be carefully prepared. It is desirable that for a beloved it was a surprise. Prepare and carefully place a clean, beautiful (for example, red color) bedding. On the floor and on the bed is to spread the rose petals. You can make words of love out of candles or arrange them in the form of a heart.
You can arrange a romantic dinner in a warm bath.There you can drink champagne (or red, white wine) to eat some fruit or dessert. Such a beautiful wedding night will stay for a long time in the memory of your beloved. It is worth every effort, so that everything went fine.
We need to prepare for the first night.You need to think about the outfit in which you will appear before your wives. For example, it can be sexy lacy white linen, stockings and shoes with high heels in tone. Your husband should be 100% sure that he chose a real queen for himself as a legitimate couple.
The first wedding night must pass sensually andromantic. Do not be shy at this moment. You can surprise your spouse by dancing a beautiful dance with a pleasant or favorite music. Movements should be thought through and prepared in advance, so that they are natural and harmonious. Then the first night will be remembered by both spouses.
Despite the fact that your beloved is now officiallybecome a legal spouse, you need to continue to please and surprise him, otherwise the relationship will simply run out. Many girls are interested in what can be done on their wedding night, and what is not? Let's take a closer look at this topic.
So, you can:
What can not:
In ancient times the preparation for this night was a real ritual. Since it was believed that it was during this period that the foundation of the family was laid.
After the wedding, the young couple went to their parentsto spend the night. In this case, the room should be cool. The bed for the young people was the following construction: bags of flour and rye were placed on the wooden flooring. This was done so that the family was rich.
Pillows and mattresses were put on bags. This "bed" was covered with a white sheet, at the ends of which were patterns. Under the bed, they put speed and poker. These items brought the family of healthy children and happiness.
After the celebration of the spouses, everyone was escorted to the hut.The first were girlfriends and friends who came in, paid a ransom for women who protected the bed. After they beat him with a whip on the marriage bed. So they drove evil spirits away from him. The newlyweds were locked in private, under lock and key. Behind the door was a man who protected his husband and his wives from drunken guests.
On the first night, it is assumed that the spouse is deprived ofwife of virginity. The husband does everything to his wife was nice. He tries to liberate her, to excite her. The girl also needs to express her feelings for her husband, to show that she wants to be intimate with him.
Конечно же, может произойти и так, что в первую Night intimacy after the celebration did not happen. This can also be corrected later. Fortunately, the tradition of taking a cold with the blood of a virgin has already outlived itself. Most often, such a rite is even considered forbidden.
This night is full of mysteries and temptations for bothwife, and for her husband. This special time will remain in the memory of both. The first wedding night for Muslims is especially remembered for the girl, since she is the first time out of the house. Now she will spend the rest of her life with her husband.
Note that the girl is innocent, so the spouse does notneed to forget about tenderness. How should such a night begin? Islamic namaz is the key to a successful beginning of intimacy. An essential attribute of the preludes is beauty in clothes.
Молодые покрывают друг друга медом, сладостями.Then they turn to Allah. They ask him to give them the same sweet life. In it, of course, love and financial well-being should prevail. This procedure relaxes the young before the closeness, gives them special tenderness. Sometimes intimacy is postponed. This usually happens because of the bride's critical days.
A man must be delicate and gentle.The spouse must undress herself, so that the husband does not frighten her with her behavior. The coarseness of the spouse should in no case manifest. There should be only caress and tenderness. The basic rule for the spouse is to give more on the first night, more and in the future from the beloved you will receive. In addition, you should ask Allah for blessing. He must send a strong union to the couple, in which there will be love for everyone, as well as a large number of children. For this, the husband touches his forehead and asks about it. There must be a place for amorous amusements.
It seems that everyone knows how to pass a wedding nightand when. But in all countries there are their customs, which are worth knowing to everyone. Such information, perhaps, will even turn your notion about the peculiarities of the night after the wedding. So, let's look at some traditions:
