Love is an amazing feeling, thanks to whichwe learned how beautiful this world is. Experiencing a feeling of love, we are ready to roll mountains and do everything for the sake of our chosen one. But, unfortunately, sometimes love passes ... And, often, if feelings ended in one, the other still wants to continue the relationship. How to forget love? How to get rid of feelings of attachment and gain inner freedom?
When asked about how to forget your love,some respond: "Suffer!". And in this there is a share of common sense, because it is impossible to love without suffering, it is impossible and to get that spiritual experience of love torments without suffering. Surviving new feelings for themselves, poets and prose writers have written thousands of works that are still admired by modern humanity. A person who has acquired suffering reveals new facets of development that can inspire him to do creative things. Artists, composers, sculptors - they all had in their biography the history of unrequited love ... Perhaps you, too, tormented by an excess of feelings, will discover a new potential, become the creator of art and gain a new meaning of life.
If you are not inclined to creativity and rejectany (partly masochistic) experiments on themselves and seriously decided to get rid of love feelings, we advise you to arm yourself with a pen and a sheet of paper and answer the question yourself: "How to forget love?". After completing the process of writing a small list with the most crazy options, analyze it. Is there a share of common sense in these proposals? If there is, try them on yourself. As examples we can cite:
I do not like? Try to come up with your own options.
Scientists, in search of an answer to the question:"How to forget love," came to the conclusion that calmness from the moment of your parting can be found after half the time you were in a relationship, that is, if you met and loved you for a year, then six months after the break, it will become much easier for you. This formula is by no means perfect, and many have, on their own experience, refuted it once, but a scientific fact takes place.
It is more difficult to help in the matter:"How to forget the first love," because, as you know, adolescent love falls into our memory forever. Those first emotions are unlikely to ever be erased from memory, and it is not worth it, because thanks to those relationships you have learned all the delights and tortures of a magical feeling, which is called love. All the same wise British scientists say that according to statistics, men and women, having met their first love after many years, can not cope with the temptation to "remember the old," many resume friendly communication, while others do not disdain sex even while in relations with other partners. The finale of these stories is different. Some, forgetting everything, once again plunged into the abyss of youthful passions, while others retain their reason, negating all their emotional impulses.
If you, worrying about how to forget love,fell into a serious depression, we advise you to pull yourself together and find the strength to live on. Do everything, if only to think less of the past and remain alone with yourself. Meet with friends and family, study and work, make repairs at the cottage or in the apartment, get rid of things that remind of your loved one. Travel, music and literature - all this distracts from real life, to cope with which you are now very difficult. Prove yourself and others around you that you can still achieve high results, and love, albeit already, the former, will not break your core. Rejoice yourself: buy gifts, go to concerts, do your favorite hobbies and all that you could not afford, being in a relationship. Remember that everything that is done is for the best!
