It's sad, but instead ofto experience pleasure, you can feel pain when intercourse. There is this condition, which doctors call dyspareunia, both in men and in women. Although women, regardless of age, experience pain during sexual intercourse much more often than men. Pain can appear at any stage of intercourse: during excitation, immediately during intimacy, upon reaching orgasm or after it.
Any pain that occurs in the body, especially insuch a delicate situation is a signal that something is going wrong, it is necessary to find out the reasons and try to eliminate them. Otherwise, you can greatly complicate the sexual life, and your, and your partner. Since the problems of one of the sexual partners cause problems in another.
The reasons why women can be bothered by pain during intercourse.
With defloration, pain is a consequence of fear,under the influence of which the muscles of the body strongly contract, vaginal including. The structure of the hymen is such that it can stretch, but it does not tear and therefore there should be no pain.
Vaginismus is a strong contraction of the muscles of the vaginawhen you touch the genitals. It can be the result of rape, mistrust of a partner or sexual trauma. This is more a psychological problem that does not allow a woman to relax, because the pain does not come from penetrating a foreign object, but from muscle spasm.
Inflammation.When there are unpleasant sensations during or after intercourse - burning, pain, rubbing, itching, dryness - the cause is most often the inflammatory process. At once it is necessary to find out the reason and undergo the appropriate treatment. In this case, it is necessary to treat both partners immediately, regardless of the results of the analyzes of the man. Sexual life at this time is better to stop, and if to continue, only with condoms. Do not convict a partner of treason, because the cause of inflammation can be microorganisms that live in a person in a normal state - staphylococci, E. coli, etc.
Spikes appear after inflammatory processesin the ovaries, fallopian tubes or intestines. Their presence can cause pain during sexual intercourse in certain poses, and it is located deep in the abdomen. When the posture changes, the pain disappears, but if the pain does not go away after sex, then we must begin to treat chronic inflammation.
Pain can cause various stitches after surgeryor childbirth, after injuries and breaks. In this case, the use of lubricants, special exercises for the development of vaginal muscles. In extreme cases, surgical intervention is indicated.
Women with endometriosis are concerned about pain during sex before menstruation, making this process very painful. The treatment of the cause, i.e., endometriosis, is required.
In some cases, life develops in such a way thata woman does not have sex regularly, refrains or does not receive detente for a long time. All this leads to stagnant phenomena, as the blood fills the organs of the small pelvis, and there is no outflow. When sex becomes regular, then instead of improving the condition, a woman experiences severe pain in the vagina. In addition, the stagnation of blood can provoke a variety of gynecological diseases - myoma of the uterus, mastopathy, endometriosis.
Another cause of acute pain in the pelvic regionthe time of sex giving up in the leg, can be a neuralgia of the pelvic nerves. Inflammation of the pelvic nerve can be a consequence of stress, hypothermia, or infection. For treatment, warming procedures, pepper plaster and physiotherapy are used.
If a woman does not want intimacy or is afraid of her,if her hormonal balance is broken (taking contraceptives, after giving birth, menopause), then an insufficient amount of secretion is formed in the vagina, which makes the sexual intercourse very painful. Breaking the hormonal background needs correction with the help of necessary hormones, psychological problems must be solved independently or with a psychologist, using at that time lubricants.
Causes of pain during intercourse in men:
Headache during intercourse may occurbecause of the strain of the muscles of the face, neck and jaw in people of both sexes. People with migraine may experience pain during the culmination, due to pressure drop. To eliminate it, you can change the pose, sometimes the doctor can prescribe medications that are taken before sex.
Headache can be a sign of a hemorrhage if there is nausea or loss of consciousness. In this case, a doctor's consultation is required immediately.
