Говорят, что у каждого человека должна быть good work, a strong family and a true friend who will always be there. And there is an opinion that it is easier to start a family than to find a true friend. Whatever it was, but friendship plays an important role in the life of every modern person. Here to whom we go to share secrets? And who we cry in the waistcoat, tell that recently met the love of his life and generally lost his head? To a friend. And what should a real friend be like? Let's try to figure this out.
It is believed that there can be several friends, buttrue friend only one. After all, it's true, you will not go to tell a secret friend who is kind of like a friend, but does not seem to. To find a true friend, you have to sweat. Although, can you find it. Here, as luck in the casino: either it is, or it is not. Most of the time we meet faithful real friends in a deep childhood, go with them to school, rejoice at every event, and as adults we continue to maintain relationships, remaining the closest people on the planet. But this does not mean that real friendship can not be found in adulthood. To friendship, like love, all ages are submissive. Just want to say that a true friend will not fall on your head. It will take many years to get the status of the present.
If you make a portrait of a true friend, then it should be something like this:
• Never leave in a trouble. He always comes to the rescue, even when you have to sacrifice your own plans or even life.
• He is able to listen. He never interrupts, always answers the questions posed.
• Gives you smart advice. This means that he will not advise what can be harmful, for example, to harm a love relationship or career.
• A true friend will not forget to congratulate you on your birthday or any other holiday. He will make a gift, and even sign a postcard.
• He often calls and asks how things are.
• Never betray, betray and use friendship for personal gain.
• He likes to go to the movies together, and then discuss the movie he watched.
This is only the smallest that a true friend can have. In general, true friendship is an endless source of good deeds and joyful moments.
A person who has a true friend canto envy. Often people have dozens of friends, but only among them there is not one that is the most-most. Sometimes you have to burn yourself, considering it a true friend of someone who will never become one.
But I wonder if it's hard to be a true friend?Here, how to look. On the one hand, yes, because a loyal friend takes responsibility for relationships with other people. He can sacrifice anything for his own purposes, but not friendship. Most likely, that's why it's difficult to be a real friend, because very often life throws up such situations when it is necessary to make a difficult choice between friendships and something else. If you look at the other side, then why a real friend should be difficult. The title of "the present" deserves not everyone, but the one who deserved, will successfully cope with all the tests of friendly relations.
It should be noted that true friendship is not alwaysthe eternal. Sometimes even the best friends lose their relationship. Simply, there is a feeling that is above love - this is love. And if two friends fall in love with one person, their relationship may well give a break. It is considered that one of the friends in such situations should yield, but who, because both are in the same position. True, if the true friendship disintegrates, then only in isolated cases.
And yet, it's great when in our life there isreal friends. Family is a family, but real friendship never hurts. Just to find him, a true and most faithful friend, who will never give up and let you down.