Modern girls have every reason to consider the guys timid and insecure in themselves. After the recognition of the girl in sympathy they can wait, wait, and never wait. That's why girls have to wrest this recognition themselves with the help of various tricks.
But it's good if the girl herself likes thisguy, but what if she refers to the guy indifferently or in a friendly way? In this case, the guy runs the risk of getting into an extremely unpleasant situation - becoming a friend of the girl he is in love with. This happens often enough. The guy starts to give the girl attention signs, invites to spend time together, actively communicates with her, etc., but does not let the girl understand that he likes him. As a result, the unlucky chevalier becomes a friend for the girl, and it will be extremely difficult to get out of this status.
When recognition of the girl in sympathy, finally,ripens in the mind of the "friend", the girl will perceive this as an extremely unpleasant situation. As a boyfriend, she never considered her friend, but she does not want to lose her friend, therefore the relationship is likely to return to the friendly channel, and it is unlikely that this couple will succeed in the future.
The conclusion is simple. You can not delay the recognition. It is necessary from the very first meeting to show that you consider a girl as a girl, and not as a pleasant interlocutor. After the recognition of the girl in sympathy - this, by no means, does not recognize her in love, it does not oblige to anything. You simply let her know that she is interesting to you, and you would not mind if your relationship reached a new level.
There is no need to use words for this, anddirectly say that you like it. Light half hints are more effective in this situation. You have to flirt with the girl, give her compliments, note how she looks, show her jealousy in a joking way, etc. All this is clear signals for the girl that you like her. If you do not submit them, you will automatically be transferred to the category of friends once and for all.
However, from the stage of easy flirtation need timego out, otherwise you will again become a friend for her, only a friend, with whom you can flirt a little. If such a prospect does not lure you, then start collecting ideas of a declaration of love to your girlfriend from the first date.
To declare love you need to take as much as possibleresponsibly. In your relationship, this is a crucial stage, as well as a very memorable moment for both the girl and yourself. If you meet with her for many more years, and perhaps marry her, you will remember this magical moment together again and again for many more years. Therefore, to the declaration of love carefully prepare, choose the right place and time, try to create a romantic mood for your girlfriend before saying the magic words.
If recognition of the girl in sympathy can be spontaneous then declaration of lovethe girl must wait by herself. Otherwise, her reaction may be ambiguous. But do not be late with your recognition. If your relationship has long been rooted in a long way, do not languish your darling, open your feelings in front of her.
The form of recognition can be absolutely any.If you are terribly shy of this moment, you can tell about your feelings in the form of a game or some kind of secret message. Girls love encrypted declarations of love, because they leave behind a slight taste of the riddle.
However, the main thing - do not be afraid and do not pull with yourconfessions. For a girl, there is nothing more important than to feel loved, so being ashamed of how she will react to the expression of your feelings does not make any sense. Even if she does not answer you in return, she will be very flattered and certainly will not laugh at you. In any case, it is better than loving a person and being afraid to admit it to him.
