Another 15-20 years ago the tradition of writing lettersbeloved girl, and in general to relatives or friends, it seemed, lost herself. It was much easier for people to make a phone call and say everything in words than to write on paper for a long time, go to the post office, send a letter, and then wait for it to reach its destination. Continuing to write regularly, except for young guys who have been serving in the army - their mothers, sisters or beauties, committed to wait for their return. And those, in turn, wrote in response. A letter to the beloved from the girl's army is, of course, sacred. After all, this could raise the soldier's spirit of the soldier. I remember that in the Soviet Union army girls were writing completely unfamiliar girls to cheer them up, to give them a good mood. After the Internet quickly entered our life, the culture of written communication revived again. This advantage is especially enjoyed by those who find it difficult to express their feelings live. In addition, in a letter you can think long over each word, expression, or while writing to use some template, a sample compiled by a professional, to inscribe the lines of some famous or unknown author. In a word, a letter to a beloved girl with a confession of love, especially the first time, is much easier to write than to say at a meeting, looking into her eyes and not knowing what her reaction will be.
There are situations where a guy accidentallymeets a girl and falls in love with her at the first glance. He watches her for a while, watches her house, becomes her shadow, but does not find a suitable opportunity to come and meet. Then he decides to write to her. Such a love message has its own specifics. At the very beginning of the letter the young man should introduce himself, tell about himself: what he does, what interests he has, etc. Then he should write about when and where he saw it for the first time, describe how she looked, what she was wearing and etc. Then you have to admit to what a strong impression it made on him, and then add: "Maybe this is love at first sight?". After that, you can write that he would be happy to meet her and finally get to know each other. And at the very end of the letter the guy will have to leave his contacts, phone number, address of his profiles in social networks, etc. It will be very romantic if he immediately appoints her a date, for example, in such terms: "I'll wait for you every day or every Thursday (Tuesday, Wednesday, etc. - it's not important) at such and such a time, in such and such a place, until you come. " It is better to send a letter by mail, and for this the guy will have to establish her exact address, name and surname of the girl.
Very often there are situations when young people -girl and boyfriend - meet almost every day (they can work in the same business center, or one of them is an employee of a company whose client is another, etc.), but not being presented to each other, not even say hello. Every day a young man falls more and more in love with a girl, perhaps she notices his interest in his person, but does not show his mind, and because of his natural shyness he does not dare to approach and get acquainted. Finally, the young "Romeo" gets courage and writes a letter to his beloved girl about the feelings that he feels for her.
Of course, from how it will be writtenthe future of the relationship between a guy and a girl depends. Here the main thing is to be sincere, polite, accurate in the selection of words. If you want to make some kind of comparison, then this should sound not funny, but appropriate. Sometimes girls like it, when a declaration of love is written in a poetic form. Of course, for this fit the lines of the pen of a classic, and not those vulgar rhymes that can be found on questionable sites.
It is desirable that the love message does not containgrammatical errors. If you are not in the spelling, then try to use only those words in the letter, which are sure in spelling. It is better to avoid jargon expressions, but not to write high-flown phrases from your face. But if your chosen one is a refined nature, then for the message to her the couplets of Pushkin's verses will perfectly suit, which you will need to smoothly enter into the text of the letter to your beloved girl. It is better to tell about feelings in your own words either at the very beginning of a love message or at the end. It will be very useful to describe what you felt at the moment when you first saw it. But you need to be very careful in choosing expressions. They should be without pathos or any vulgarity. The girl must believe in the sincerity of your feelings and not at all doubt them. Only then can you count on success.
Today, there are many options forimplementation of this. The simplest, of course, to find out the email address and send a beautiful letter to your beloved girl in the electronic version. You can also send her a personal message in the social network in which she is registered, but before that you need to ask her to "friends", because without this your message can go into spam. If she adds you to the list of "friends", she will immediately see who is the author of the letter. And this means that there will be no intrigue. But if you decide to write a true love letter on a snow-white sheet of paper, and by hand, put it in a beautiful envelope and send it to the office together with a large bouquet of roses, this will have a completely different effect - be sure the girl will appreciate your diligence. A letter to your girlfriend can also be sent through the mail. It will be intriguing.
Every young man who goes to serve in the army,I want to know that his beloved is waiting for him. Being in the military unit, in his spare time, he will dream about it, make plans for the future: how they will submit documents to the registrar, how they will choose a wedding dress, how they will play a wedding, celebrate the honeymoon, go on a honeymoon somewhere hot sea, then they will have children, etc. Naturally, with all this young man will not be tolerated to share with the subject of his love. And the most convenient way for this is to write in your own words a letter to your beloved girl.
Of course, a love message should not immediatelybegin with a list of events through which the couple have to go through after the guy returns from the army home. At the very beginning he should tell the girl about his feelings, how much he yearns for her, how he lacks the gentle look of her eyes, how he dreams to stand next to her, to admire her beauty, to hold her hand and inhale the fragrance emanating from her beautiful hair. We must also ask whether she feels the same way, thinking about him. After all, this way he will dictate the tone of her reply letter. Here is such a small trick that will force even the most reserved girl to tell her true feelings, her love, her longing and expectation.
As a rule, after receiving sincerea touching letter from a soldier, even if it is written a little clumsily, the beloved sends him a message containing many affectionate words and assurances of reciprocity of feelings, and this can move a soldier to tears. A letter to your beloved girl in your own words, believe me, has a truly magical power. And if it is sincere, then no beauty can not resist his charms. In the middle part of the message you need to write about the bright future, about your dreams connected with your beloved. After reading this, the girl will be easier to cope with anguish, because she will also become involved in these dreams, and every night before going to bed will be in his imagination to develop the upcoming events. Naturally, in return she will also share her dreams, which will give inexhaustible material for future letters.
In the previous chapter, we discussed how to writethe letter to the beloved girl about love is obvious and mutual. However, very often it happens that the guy before going to the army, and does not dare open to his chosen one. And so, when he was in the military unit, the young man, looking at the way his companions write letters to their girls, recruited courage and decides to reveal himself to the object of his dreams. How to correctly compose such a message, what words to choose? That's when he realizes that it's not so easy to write "love" in a letter to a beloved girl, although it's much easier than standing in front of her, looking into your eyes and pronouncing your confession.
So that no one will stop him from concentrating,the guy secures himself, takes out a blank sheet of paper, handles and writes the first line: "Hello, (name of the girl), he writes to you (his name). You probably know that I'm in the army now. I really hope that you noticed my absence. You know, I've been in love with you for a long time already. It happened (there and in such circumstances). But you always seemed so impregnable to me, and I could not tell you how I felt. I can not rely on anything or ask you, but if you answer me, then I will be the happiest person in the world. I can already imagine how I keep in my hands the reply letter sent by you. I'll keep it in my breast pocket, next to my heart. Believe me, being here, far from everyone, I realized that you are the most dear person for me, that I was very wrong not to confess to you before leaving. Every time I close my eyes, you come to my mind's eye, your image, so beautiful, mysterious. I fall asleep thinking of you. I love you very much! How I wish I had wings, even for a moment to return to our city and see for a moment you, beloved.
P.S. I can not demand anything, but I very much hope that you will answer me, and my feelings will find a response in your heart. I look forward to at least one line written by your hand. "
It happens that the girl promises a soldier to waithis return, but does not hold back the word. It is very bad when a guy is in ignorance, waiting and hoping, when he sees his beloved, and when he returns, he is deeply disappointed. I recalled the scene from the movie "Brigade", when Sasha Belov returned from the army, and his girlfriend betrayed him, set foot on the wrong path. From this moment the whole life breaks down. However, the situation is different, but if the girl is honest, then at least she should write a letter to the former guy and tell him that she is not going to wait any longer. Of course, it hurts a guy very badly, he will be very upset, but at least he will be honest. By the time he returns home, he will certainly be cured of unhappy love.
Imagine a situation when the girl sentsoldier the news that he fell in love with another and does not intend to wait any longer for him. Some guys do not want to put up with the situation and decide to make a last attempt to return the beloved's location and awaken former feelings. To this end, they write a touching farewell letter to their beloved girl. As a rule, in such messages there are many memories of those minutes during which both the guy and the lady of his heart experienced real, genuine happiness. Perhaps, the girl forgot about them, and remembering, she will understand that she should not do this with a man who could give her happy moments. You can recall your shared dreams and everything that was common between you - general plans for the future, common views on the same things, a common attitude to life. Maybe she does not have all this with her new boyfriend. Naturally, you do not need to ask her not to leave you, to come round and come back - this may present you in her eyes as a weak-willed, spineless person. Try not to reproach her for infidelity at all, and not to mention in a letter about a new lover. You can tell her again what you feel for her, and that you are ready to forgive her momentary weakness. It is necessary to put on this special accent. Perhaps she did not even think about the fact, but how strong are her feelings for the new guy? And after you write about it, she will think in this direction and suddenly realize that she loves you only truly.
End the letter to your girlfriend in a situation,which was described in the previous chapter, best of all with the wishes of all the best, and first of all happiness, no matter what. It is necessary to strive to look in the eyes of a beloved generous person who is ready to understand and forgive. It is better to send such a letter not by mail, but rather through someone you know, to be sure that it has reached its destination. If the girl does not hurry to respond to this message, then try to wrest it from your heart and forget it. After all, as they say, forcibly you will not be nice. You already did a lot by answering her letter. After all, many guys would immediately erase the name of the wrong girl from their memory and their heart. It is necessary to try to distract yourself with other activities, forbid yourself to think about her and everything related to her name.
So, let's sum up.A letter to the beloved, regardless of whether the girl knows about the feelings of the guy and whether they are mutual, should be written in a very polite, respectful manner. It should not be familiar, contain slang expressions. Of course, if we are talking about a couple, then the young man can use all those affectionate words with which he usually calls his beloved. It can be very interesting, when lines of beautiful poems are added to the text of the letter, and a random photo of the girl made when she did not even suspect that someone was watching her is also put in the envelope of the letter. In a word, a very beautiful and touching letter to a girl can strengthen your relationships and make them brighter and warmer.
