This phenomenon, which some sociologistsdescribed as female marital migration, was noted in the mid-nineties of the twentieth century. It happened just at the very time when the notorious “iron curtain” collapsed, and the girls got a real opportunity to fulfill their blue dream.
A coveted marriage with a foreigner has become completelyreal opportunity. The imagination of the romantic-minded girls painted almost milk rivers with milk and honey that were waiting for them - there ... And marriage with a foreigner seemed like something like a happy meeting with a fairy-tale prince.
But nevertheless reality often turned out to benot at all like the long-awaited fairy tale of naive romantic girls. It turned out that the welfare of the foreigner husband was based on savings, and had nothing to do with the possible luxury gifts.
And how many cases of marriage swindlers were initiatedand about human trafficking! How many stories about different career failures ... The surging was a rainbow and at the same time a muddy and foamy wave of euphoria subsided, divorces began, and the design of a marriage with a foreigner ceased to seem like a boon.
From now on, the girls began to drive themselves by themselves.the border, to communicate with "them" in chat rooms, and in this way in preparation for successfully marrying a rich foreigner. The number of clients of international marriage agencies did not become less ...
В настоящее время брак с иностранцем вновь стал business prestigious. Every year more and more girls began to marry citizens of other states and leave their homes. Indeed, in marriages between citizens of different states, as a rule, the bridegroom is usually a foreigner, so again we can talk about “female migration”, that is, take our girls to distant lands ...
Among the girls and women for whom clearancemarriage with a foreigner is so desirable, there are two categories - very young inexperienced girls of twenty-twenty-five who have just graduated from universities, and experienced women from 35 years old who have unsuccessful experience in marriage, and possibly with children.
Marriage with a foreigner has both its positive,and negative sides. Of course, many girls who marry foreigners go to the homeland of their fiancé in search of a higher standard of living and other, more humane attitudes towards themselves from society, and very often receive it.
The fact is that often "they" person reallyit is estimated not by the “hearth” that it occupies, but by the available abilities and capabilities, by the benefit that the employee can bring to the company. In our country, man alone is worth nothing, and the elite is simply not in demand.
Thus, marriage with a foreigner in Russia canto become not just a step towards the attainment of well-being, but also a very tangible impetus to development, making girls more determined and more determined in achieving the set targets, which previously seemed just a pipe dream.
There is another pretty serious reason.The new surge in marital migration. Foreign "princes" in white limousines now do not perceive Slav women as completely free housekeepers, and our girls no longer play the role of amusing and exotic toys or original accessories for publishing, although the beauty of Slavic girls known throughout the Western world continues to attract attention suitors from the decaying West. In addition, “theirs” in our girls are attracted by the initial orientation towards the creation of a family, and not to a career, which is typical of western girls.
But, as often happens, along with many obviouspositive qualities, marriage for a foreigner has some disadvantages, which are a continuation of the existing advantages. All the expectations that a marriage with a foreigner brings in Russia are often broken when moving abroad. This is mainly due to differences - cultural and psychological between our countries. Often these differences can become so significant that they can cause a divorce and return to their homeland ...
Our girls may simply not fit into Western life, which causes them to be confused and even a whole storm of negative emotions with all the possible consequences.
