Divorce at the present time is practically a matterordinary and familiar. Disintegrate as young families, and families with experience. Through the fault of women and through the fault of men. But whoever was responsible for the collapse of the family, the divorce procedure is quite unpleasant for both.
This article is intended for male representatives and gives some advice and recommendations on how to divorce his wife.
So, love and romance have sunk in the summer.Ordinary, boredom and dislike became the companions of life. Relations on the verge of a break, and the family - on the verge of collapse. In his head, the thought strikes: divorce his wife. But how to do it, because inevitably there will be hysterics and women's tears, insults and reproaches? Even thinking about this is scary. But do not think, either. Such a life does not bring joy, only grief and distress.
How to get a divorce from your wife so that this procedure does notbecame painful for both sides? Firstly, if you still decided on this step, you should honestly and frankly tell this to your wife. The sooner this happens, the less time will be spent on hysterics. By the way, if there is no determination, and you do not know how to do it better, talk about how to divorce your wife, you can and with a specialist. The psychologist in this case can be very useful. It would be best, of course, to get the consent of the spouse and to find a compromise in all matters arising during the divorce proceedings. However, this is not always easy to do. Here the role of the principle can play its role. And the intractable spouse will do everything to spite. A good option in this case, and not only, will change the place of residence, having left the family nest, so as not to heat up the situation.
An important point and for many very painfulthere will be a news message capable of turning over all life to children (if they exist). In such a case, you need all your courage, patience and affection. Children in no case once again should not suffer. And the divorce and disintegration of the way of life that is habitual for them with their mother and father will become a real stress for them and a kind of loss. Specialists in such matters will help to choose words and smooth out the acute moments.
After the very first serious step (messagewife and children shocking news) do not stretch the process: documents for divorce should be collected and submitted to the relevant authorities without delay. Volokita never benefited anyone.
In anticipation of the decisive moment, it is necessary to rememberthe golden rule: do not forget that once you were associated with this woman love, tenderness and family ties. It is impossible in a fit of anger to trample all this in one fell swoop. Divorce with his wife should not provoke situations that go beyond the bounds of what is permissible. Respect for the practically former life companion should remain and be preserved both throughout the divorce process and after it. The best way out of this situation will be to maintain friendly relations with his ex-wife. This, of course, is not very simple, but possible. In addition, you must remember the children and be bound by their interests. In this period, it is not easy for them, so you should try very hard not to hurt them even more.
Another important point in the divorce caseprocess will be the issue of the division of property. This problem for many spouses is just a stumbling block. And here it does not hurt to show nobility and approach it with understanding, taking into account the interests of children on a mandatory basis. In this case, it may be necessary and legal advice, and sometimes the services of a lawyer. However, as mentioned earlier, it is better to find a compromise solution.
The final step will be an agreement with the formerwife on the issue of your meetings with children, unless, of course, you jointly decide that the children (or the child) will live with you. In no case should a divorce become an obstacle to your relationship with your blood relatives.
Now you know how to divorce your wife and do it civilized.
