People meet, people fall in love ...It is not always unrequited, and not always with reciprocity. There is a passionate love, when the chosen one or the chosen one gives in return the warmth of her soul and heart, and unfortunate love happens. The latter case is very difficult, since not only the soul suffers, but also the self-esteem of a person. After all, anyone dreams of having a tender and mutual love in his life - psychology in this respect is similar to all.
What to do and how to be, if unhappy love has come unexpectedly into your life?
First, it is needed as soon as possibleto get rid of. Why do you experience? For this, psychologists recommend the use of special techniques. It is very important to clearly articulate your positive goal and go to it. How to do it? It is desirable to forget all the negative prefixes "not" and to imagine the desired as clearly as possible, and not vice versa. That is, do not fix on what you want to remove from your life. To achieve what you want, imagine the goal of your work on yourself - a self-confident, completely free person, to whom many opportunities open (and the choice of a sexual partner). Anyone who suffers from his love dependence, should at least try to remember his feelings before meeting with the object of unrequited love. Unhappy love does not bring anything good into a person's life, so it is useless to keep feelings and try to lure the object of your sighing into the set up networks in every way. It is necessary to try to get rid of this "dependence".
The one who has unhappy love, must againto experience and remember the wonderful feeling of absolute freedom from other people, independence, a sense of one's own worth and independence, and imagine how it's really great to manage your body and soul yourself and not depend on someone's eyes and phone call. The feeling of lightness of being that carries such memories must also play a role for such a person - first a few minutes of happiness, then an hour, a day, a week, etc. One can imagine how a famous film director casually notices you, suggesting that he play the role of a happy carefree ladies' man who does nothing but enjoy life (and girls can imagine themselves as a confident and very sexual bitch who use men only for their own needs and pleasure).
Imagine, do not hesitate to fantasize andto imagine that your film career depends entirely on the result of the screen test, or in general - your entire subsequent life. No director is needed even for a penny an unhappy, yearning lover, similar to Pierrot from a well-known children's fairy tale. This film is created about a happy man, an optimist, looking at the world as an innocent kid on a cherished vase with his favorite ice cream. The main thing - a burning desire to try on a different image, and a little imagination and willpower is almost every person.
In conclusion, I want to say that it is not necessary,if you have an unhappy love in life, constantly jump on the beds of different people in an attempt to forget for doubtful pleasures (by the way, you can not drink at all!). It is better to remember that there are a lot of people living on our big Earth (and about three billion people of the opposite sex), and this means that you have a chance in life to find your only ideal. New faces, new meetings, new emotions will help to distract from problems and find interest in life. Take work at work and leave somewhere far, far away, to where there are certainly no objects and places that could remind you of the former condition. Perhaps, there you will find a happy love.
