The question of how to become a man, in sometribes to this day is quite easy to solve. For this, there are initiations, sometimes painful and dangerous for health and life. In civilized countries the concept of "man" is formed as an image in the consciousness of society. However, depending on the culture of a particular country or nation, the answers to questions about how a guy and a mature person should be are different. The problem becomes deeper also because today the woman gradually begins to occupy the same positions in society and family as the man. In Russia, in many areas, the representatives of the weaker sex occupy leading positions.
The reason for this state of affairs is that the malehalf simply shirks responsibility. We can say that what men are like - so are women. If the father of the family throws his wife and offspring, placing responsibility for the maintenance and upbringing of children on the woman, the consequences will necessarily be deplorable. What will happen to the boys raised without a father? Most often, the child models his behavior by observing the adults. From his infancy he will be brought up by a woman, when he goes to the kindergarten, then there he will receive exclusively female upbringing. There are not too many male teachers at school, from which one can take an example. As a result, the future man will begin to solve his problems in a feminine way. Most likely, he will become infantile. Who will show him what a man should be like?
Part of the problem could be solved by the army.But in fact by that moment the boy will be already 18, while the basic development of man is carried out long before adulthood. In addition, most teenagers do not dream of being in military service and are frankly afraid of it. Before becoming a man, a young man must learn several things. First of all, responsibility. Mind and logic are the leading ways of thinking for the stronger sex. A man who falls into tantrums is a tragedy for society. In addition to responsibility, one must also have the willpower and the ability to go to the set goals. If there is no goal, then there is no life.
In the difficulties tempered character.Anyone who is interested in how to become a man must learn that for this it is not enough simply to write down the basic male principles and observe them with a proud look. True principles are those that are suffered. A man should be able to keep his word. If the word is given, then the promised must be fulfilled. Otherwise it's better not to promise. Calmness and self-confidence are also masculine qualities. It is noted that the calmness of a man acts on women more than the mountains of broken furniture. Showing an excess of emotion, a representative of the stronger sex is likened to an enraged woman. Women also know how to break that will fall under the arm, only their strength is less. Someone connects masculinity with success in career and money. Partly it's right, because a man is a getter. However, it is not necessary to reduce all functions to making money.
How to become a man in a world where upbringingboys - a female function? The work itself should take on the adolescents themselves. Let such a decision become the first conscious and responsible male step. Each guy can set goals and problems and solve them. At the same time, the criterion of success should be the effectiveness of solving difficulties. The world of men is rivalry and competition. This applies to the material side, and spiritual. And to enter this world you need to prepare. Unreasonable decisions can be made by infantile young men, unable to answer for themselves and their actions. A man should be able to answer for each step. Sometimes representatives of the stronger sex have to make unpopular decisions. They can seem tough and even cruel. But over time it is found that these actions served for good. To what a man should be, one must learn by examples.
