For modern youth, communication on the Internetis perhaps the most common way to get acquainted with the person you like. Some people are skeptical about this: they say, one correspondence alone can not get a complete picture of the "interlocutor." However, these days social networks (and, in particular, the popular VKontakte site) provide an opportunity to report any information about yourself: publish photos, videos, write about your thoughts and feelings, post interesting news on your page, etc.
Let's move on to practice. How to drive to the girl "VKontakte"? The guys who come across this issue for the first time often end up with one of the following mistakes.
Agree, it will largely depend on himthe impression that you will make on the girl. And also that, whether she will want to continue the correspondence. Therefore, those who want to know how to drive to the girl "VKontakte", first of all, it is necessary to abandon the pattern questions like "how are you?", "What are you doing?", "What's new?" And others. The second method, which should not be used, is to start communicating with compliments. Few girls respond to bored and same-type messages "you're beautiful", "you really liked me" and the like. In the best case, you will just be thanked. Already from the first message it is important to interest the girl you liked, show her that you are a really interesting and pleasant interlocutor, who is interested not only in her appearance.
Reflecting on the fact that writing to the girl "VKontakte",Do not immediately from the first days of communication to share with her their problems. As relations develop, it will even be necessary, but in no case at the first stages. When people are still unfamiliar, the one who talks about his failures and difficulties does not look like a person who wants to share the most painful, but as a grim whiner, fixated on himself. It is much more pleasant to communicate with a positive, confident, cheerful and cheerful interlocutor!
How to drive to a girl "VKontakte?Even if you want your interlocutor to learn about you as much as possible, you should not rush things. And even more so to translate the topic of conversation, using the words "but I ...", "but I have ...". For a girl to pay attention to you, she should feel that you are genuinely interested in her as a person, it is important for you what happens in her life, what she likes or disgusts. Therefore, be a grateful listener (in our case the reader) and periodically ask leading questions. Of course, if a girl asks you about something, do not keep silent and answer monosyllabically - it is also important for her to know if you are suitable for her. By the way, while she will talk about herself, you can get a lot of useful information for yourself, which is likely to come in handy soon (for example, she may accidentally mention what flowers she likes, or express her condemnation of smoking guys).
Get to know the girl "VKontakte" mucheasier than to keep this communication and arouse a reciprocal interest on her part. Representatives of the fair sex like diversity. Tell her about funny situations, be interested in her opinion about serious issues and problems, discuss music and films that you like both - let your communication while only occurs in the virtual space, the future fate of your relationship depends on it. Who will be pleased to communicate with a person whose conversations occur every day on the same template?
The final stage is how to drive to the girl "BYou should not assign it in the first days, but most likely it will scare it away, but you should not wait too long, otherwise you will remain for your new friend "a pen-friend." Practice shows that the ideal time for the first meeting "in real life" - 2-3 weeks after the start of virtual communication.
As you know, girls like it when they occupy a special place in someone's life. But how can this be demonstrated on the Internet?
Of course, everything is very individual, and the same"Tricks" are not suitable for everyone. The main thing is that your communication is easy, free. Soon you will begin to intuitively understand what will be appropriate to say or do at one time or another. Good luck!
