Very often it seems to you that the world is unfair toyou. In society, you hear swearing, swearing, rudeness, which sometimes others say it to you. This is really very sad and takes it out of psychological balance. In some cases, there is simply no strength to take it easy. What is verbal humiliation, and most importantly, how to respond to an insult if it concerns you personally? Many will be interested to learn about it.
Is it worth it to react to such attacks?It is better not to think about how to respond to an insult, but simply to ignore the presence of a person who allowed himself to swear in your address. By choosing such tactics of behavior, you will not only maintain your mental balance, but also make the offender think about the words spoken, because you do not respond to him with mutual rudeness.
Often surrounding, speaking in a rude manner,they want in this way to assert themselves and exalt themselves in the eyes of society. In this case, before answering an insult, think about whether foul words do not cause you to feel pity and compassion. If you respond to rudeness with rudeness, your abuser will begin to rejoice and exult, as he managed to hurt you and ruin you. Sometimes it is so unexpectedly verbally offensive to you that you absolutely do not know how to respond to an insult, although it is better not to do it. At the same time, a huge number of people, if they were told something rude, immediately begin to think out how to get revenge. And this is wrong! It makes no sense to "waste on trifles." Skip the "past the ears" insult. If you are still touched by the words, respond to rudeness with humor, so as not to lose your own dignity.
Of course, this technique does not smooth the situation, butallow you to come out of it with honor. Imagine that a person’s opinion has absolutely no meaning for you, try not to contact him anymore.
There is another method on how to respond politely to an insult. It is called "aquarium."
If your supervisor, conducting a “planning meeting”,begins to raise his voice and speak foul language, then imagine that he is a small fish swimming in an aquarium and trying to say something by opening his mouth, while you do not hear anything and his “air shaking” is completely incomprehensible.
Such an exercise will allow you to feel confident after the meeting and not lose courage, while your colleagues will have exactly the opposite effect.
Anger and rudeness need to react with a smilehowever, to learn how to do this will require some psychological preparation. In particular, if you heard a harsh word from a rude person, what can you say to an insult? Of course, you can say the following to him: “You are a rude and uncultured person.” Sometimes this answer gives instant results. The person simply does not find that to argue, and you have the opportunity to interrupt the conversation. An unsuitable and ineffective method in this regard is to loudly react to the words of your abuser. Some use such a method as “splashing out negative energy into water”, shouting words expressing the whole spectrum of accumulated negative emotions. After that you should wash your face with cool water and tune in exclusively positive mood.
Does it make sense to respond to the insult of others? Is it possible to remake the rude? Perhaps, but it is more prudent to stop all contacts with them.
