We constantly feel something. Every second of its existence. Joy, fear, bitterness, thirst, admiration ... Such different, but all this - our feelings.
Living in the world, communicating with him and his inhabitants,a person can not help expressing his attitude towards what is happening around him. This is the basis for the interaction of the individual with the world around him - phenomena, objects, people - in the ability to feel and reveal their feelings based on emotions.
When a person is very violent, bright, loudly expressestheir attitude to something, the opinion of someone, we say that he is emotional. Indeed, it is impossible to understand the question of feelings without talking about their basis - emotions.
The better they are developed in a person, the deeperwill be his relationship with other people, the brighter will be the world of his inner experiences. They can be developed and even trained, because emotion is a state (psychophysiological), which is an indicator, an assessment, a response to actions from outside. That is, it is a kind of reflex.
If necessary, you can set emotions. For example, in response to a push in a morning stampede on the bus, you can experience anger, slight irritation or complete indifference - the difference is impressive.
There are several levels of emotional experiences (phenomena) of a person:
They are divided into two types:sthenic (positive) and asthenic (negative). The first type of feeling prepares the human body for large energy expenditure, it is associated with excitation, activity, vivacity.
The second is the result of refusal to act in a state of stress or emotionally tense environment. There is a decline in activity, depression, apathy.
Man's feelings are an indicator of his needs, both social and spiritual. Despite the complexity of their definition, feelings are even divided into species.
No matter how high or low is the level of emotional intelligence in a person, all perception begins with the senses.
How does feeling start?This we have already understood - with the emotional tone that is formed in a person on the basis of data on the environment and its position in it. A person collects this information through various organs of his body (sense organs).
They have five people:
Thus, it turns out that the sense organs -these are the organs of the human body, which by means of receptors collect data from the surrounding world and send them to the brain of a person, thus allowing to form an opinion about it.
To the remote senses are the eyes, ears, nose - they are able to perceive signals at a distance.
Sometimes these bodies are able to compensate each other. For example, it is known that people with visually impaired people are often very well developed hearing and touch.
The central nervous system analyzes the information coming through the receptors and identifies it. So a person gets sensations that later develop into emotions and feelings.
It turns out that the human senses are unevenly developed.
For example, the eyes can send information tothe nervous system is more intense, faster than the ears and nose. That is, visual sensations will be basic in the perception of the surrounding world. Such people are called visuals. They are about 35% of the total population of the planet. Visuals see the world in pictures, perfectly memorize external details. If you use visual images to communicate with such a person, visualize the information, he will understand you more deeply and deeper. Phrases like: "Look how delicious!" - this is the norm for the visual. A feeling is an image in his eyes.
25% of Earth's inhabitants are stronger and faster perceivedAuditory sensations are audials. For them, sound is very important. It's not so important what you say, but the timbre of voice, the rate of speech will cause a much stronger feeling. This is the basic principle of information perception. Communicating with the audial, watch the emotionality of your speech.
All the rest are kinesthetics.Their world is more tactile sensations. Therefore, it is important for them to be next to their interlocutor, to touch him or herself, or to something else. In our age of distance technologies, kinesthetics are the most difficult to adapt. Do you want him to hear you? Give yourself a touch, at least hold it by the sleeve.
A person is able to experience feelings of different strengths (in emotional terms) in relation to one object.
For example, eating.How much will a person feel when they have dinner at home? And on a visit? In a restaurant? After a long diet? Outdoors? The amplitude of sensory experiences will be quite large in all the proposed options. This is because the power of the senses is the amount of energy that a person receives from emotions or expends on them. That is, the more emotions we receive or express in a complex (in relation to one object, action), the stronger will be the feeling experienced. Thus expressions like "strongly like" and "slightly love" have a full right to exist.
Each person is able to develop a high emotional intellect, to experience strong and vivid feelings throughout life and in any situation.
