How to properly embrace a girl: instruction and tips

Want to hug a girl for the first time, but do not know how?Or maybe you have been together for a long time, but you still haven’t understood how to determine the moment when it is worthwhile to use lovely arms? Let's try to figure out how to properly embrace the girl with whom you start a relationship, continue or for the time being just friendship.

Pick the right moment

The first and most important rule of good hugs isThis is the selection of the right moment. It is very difficult for many young people to determine when a girl is ready for this. And often there is such a problem: the guy hugged the girl for the waist, and she called him and ran away.

What moment can be called correct:

• When you first met.This embrace will be interpreted as “I am glad to see you” or “I missed you very much”. But do not lean all the weight on a fragile girl, just lightly embrace as a friendly gesture.
• Emotional moment.The girl is complaining to you about something or, on the contrary, she shared a joyful event - time for hugs. And again, remember that a girl is not a man and clapping on her back with all her might and shouting “Hurray, well done” is not a good idea.
• Goodbye Again a nice gesture saying that you will miss your companion.

How to understand that a girl wants to be hugged?

Если мы хотим понять, как правильно обнимать the girl, then it is necessary to realize the most important thing - the language of her body. It is very important to catch non-verbal (that is, not those that speak with words) signs that the girl is already dreaming for you to hold her close. The list of signs is attached below, but remember that these are only stereotypical, and each girl is an individuality:

1. The girl looks at you, smiles and looks into your eyes.
2. He twists his curls on his finger, touches his hair, as if attracting your attention to them.
3. When you sit together, she tries to close the distance, and her feet and hips are pointing in your direction.
4. Concerns you in the process of conversation. It can lightly touch the shoulder or pat it when you are joking.
5. Reduces the distance by asking to evaluate her perfume or beads.

How to understand that a girl does not want to be hugged?

To successfully understand how to huggirl, you must also understand when a girl is not ready to cuddle. And if in cases with long relationships you can understand the mood of a girl, then there may be difficulties with new acquaintances.

The girl turns away and does not look into your eyes?Retreats a step when you shorten the distance? Her lips are tight and she’s not laughing at your jokes? Disturbing signs, but still do not mean that you are disgusting girl. It is possible that she believes that the guy and the girl are embracing only after a long acquaintance, and just not yet time.

Forcibly hugging a girl is impossible, it is not only wrong, but it can completely destroy the relationship between you.

Hug tips

Let's add some tips to the article on how to hug a girl:

• Remember about hygiene products. After the sport, you need to take a shower, otherwise you can scare the lady "scent".
• Do not rush on the girl suddenly. Hugging is a smooth process.
• Make contact, listen to the girl and what she says.
• Do not hug too long if you are not in love with a couple.
• Do not pull your hands sharply.

Many girls do not like to hug at all. It is worth finding out if a girl is gentle with you, but does not respond to hugs.

For couples who are already in a long relationship,it is usually not difficult to understand when one of the parties needs support. However, if you have problems with this, then try a trial and error method. If a girl says she does not want to cuddle, it does not mean that she has stopped loving you or is cheating on you. It is likely that some emotions she was used to experiencing within yourself, and you disturb her cocoon. But she will be happy to share joyful moments with you. Hug more often - it makes you closer!