Old feelings have gone somewhere, there is no tenderness and sex withhusband happens less and less. As if they had changed a person, love seemed to have disappeared. Even the very existence of the family is at stake. What to do if the husband lost interest?
Start by analyzing your relationship.Often the husband becomes cold if his wife initially loved him less than he did. At a certain stage, he began to realize that he was giving away too much power, not receiving the proper return, the romantic halo evaporated and the husband remained with the understanding that his love was not sufficiently mutual. A wife who is accustomed to the position of a spoiled princess usually suffers from a rather painful situation.
However, more often the case when the wifeon the contrary, he loves more and pays too much attention to her husband. He gets tired of her calls, custody and trouble - and begins to try to communicate less in order to somehow reduce the amount of desire sent to him. This is logical - I give you less attention, and you give me less attention. As a rule, very good women dissolve in their husbands and that is why they are especially pitiful when they sincerely care - but they are rejected, tired of excessive attention.
Also, no matter how trite, the cause of coolingIt happens that a woman’s appearance has changed for the worse. A lot of people want to relax after the wedding, too often women are sure of their spouse’s unearthly love. Love can remain even after the wife crosses the mark in centner on the scales, only the attraction suffers in most cases. And the man starts having problems with potency. And if he cannot work with his wife, he can blame his wife and go to the side with a clear conscience. What if the husband walks and does not pay enough attention?
You need to change yourself for the better, with the goalthere should be not only the improvement of external data. Yes, good fitness combined with a reduced calorie diet will make you slimmer, but that alone is not enough. Excess weight, as a rule, is associated with disharmony of the inner world, with a tendency to replace with food all pleasant emotions, a definite arrest in development. In order not to feel pain because of a husband’s inattention, you need to take your time with new activities, you need to feel independent and successful. You should, as far as possible, become a new person, and not just return beautiful contours. It’s good to find a young trainer in the gym with a reputation for showing what to do. If the husband has lost interest, you need to get more male attention. And in predominantly female groups it is often very difficult to get support. Of course, it’s not possible to change a husband. You can do a bit of intrigue, but there should be no real betrayal, because then the husband will easily leave you, you yourself will give him a good reason.
С другой стороны, немного поиграть с чувством jealousy can be. Let your friends' brothers or other acquaintances of your friends, as if by chance, give you compliments on the street and pay attention to your husband's eyes. He should know that not only he needs you. It is very stimulating. There can be a lot of answers to the question: “What to do if the husband has become cold”, but in order to truly change the relationship, you must become a new person. So he fell in love again. At the same time it is good to drastically change the color of hair and hair, and for the time being it is good to hide the figure in spacious clothes until you show him the final result of your efforts. Read more high-class literature, not detective stories and women's novels, but classical Russian and foreign literature. After a few weeks of daily reading, you will notice that your consciousness has become wider, you use other words and look at the world in a new way.
There is another situation.It seems to you that your husband was bewitched. What to do in this situation? If his attitude has changed dramatically, this may be, in this case, you should try to persuade him to go to confession and the sacrament. However, more often the attitude changes gradually and the sorceress has nothing to do with it. In no case do not apply yourself to the witch asking what to do. If the husband is cold, only you can save the family. Work is necessary for yourself and relationships. And nothing else.
