There are times when "there was no sex in our country",long gone to oblivion. Today, everyone who is not lazy is freely discussing this topic. Yes, and the close relationship between representatives of the same sex is no longer an article of the Criminal Code, but a fashion trend. Despite the fact that the sexual orientation of hetero is no longer considered the only permissible, psychologists, sexologists and other serious men do not get tired to argue about this. In this case, compelling arguments are both among supporters and opponents of same-sex love. Even experts are not able to understand this question. We do not set such a goal. Our task is only to list well-known facts.
So let's start with the main thing.The most common orientation is hetero. Attraction to members of the opposite sex is experiencing more than 90% of the world's population. There are significantly fewer homosexuals and bisexuals (apparently, therefore, their sexual behavior is considered a deviation from the norm).
Awareness of oneself as a representative of a certain sex occurs in a child by the age of five. Next, the individual is formed sexual identity and orientation of sexual desire.
Most sexologists and psychologists believe that the orientation of hetero or homo is laid in childhood. According to them, the right influence on this issue has the right sex education.
It is believed that homosexuals or lesbians grow up in single-parent families, where one of the parents is missing. True, it is not clear where in this case there are bisexuals.
According to another version - sexual orientationlaid in the womb. And the cause of deviations from the norm are infectious diseases. Today, experts increasingly mention the influence of the socio-cultural environment on the development of youthful sexuality. However, it seems that this reason is more concerned with politicians than with sexologists.
However, even in the absence of any restrictions, the sexual preferences of most people are traditional. This is best confirmed by an experiment conducted by American psychologists.
From several families they created some sort of commune. Under the terms of the hostel absolutely not forbidden to engage in any kind of sex, choosing partners according to their sexual fantasies.
For some time in the "family" reigned freemorals with frequent change of partners and group orgies. But after some time, everyone broke up again into heterosexual couples, separated themselves, and began to jealously guard their relationship from abuse.
Of course, monogamy and hetero orientation istraditional, historically formed lifestyle. But to say that this is the only possible way to realize sexual attraction, is not necessary. There are at least three alternatives to the reference behavior model.
By the way, Canadian psychologists have offered to fill the list of minorities with more pedophiles. In their opinion, this is the same sexual orientation as bi, or homo.
Now a little about how to formdeviations from the norm. Society almost unanimously defines the sexual behavior of homosexuals as sexual promiscuity. Surprisingly, to the ladies - supporters of same-sex love, the attitude is much more tolerant.
Однако ученые считают, что корни проблемы кроются much deeper. For the first time, Karl Ulrichs (1825–1895), who himself had a non-traditional orientation, decided to look at the problem of homosexuality as a feature of the human psyche. As a person interested, he approached the issue very thoroughly and a couple of years later he released the scientific work "Study of the mystery of love between men".
By the way, the term "sexual orientation" in everyday lifehe introduced it. Most contemporaries did not support a colleague. According to the fashion of that time, to conduct controversy in print publications, Richard Kraft-Ebing released his opus, in which he called homosexuality just as "the degenerative state of the psyche."
Curious, but today is the masssupporters of this theory, who recommend various methods of psychological correction of deviant behavior when choosing a sexual partner. However, cases of "miraculous healing" has not yet been observed.
The esoteric on this account has its ownopinion. They believe that same-sex relationships do not give harmony, because they lack two components (male and female). Talking about love between partners in this case is completely unacceptable.
However, to lecture, instruct, refer toreligious dogmas and the majority opinion can be any number. But you should not forget that anyone has the right to dispose of his body at his own discretion. The only correct solution to the problem can only be tolerance and tolerance towards those in the minority.
